Escorts often get clients who are confused about the nature of their work. Some want a romantic relationship while others are looking for orgasm. However, it is important to remember that sex work is a service and must be treated as such.
It is also helpful to be punctual and polite. Complimenting your escort before and after the session can help make her happy.
Be polite
When it comes to escort services, etiquette is everything. If you don’t know the right way to communicate with your escort, you could ruin her experience and make her uncomfortable. Be polite at all times and never insult her. Stay away from comments about her appearance, like saying “Aren’t you getting a little old for this?” or “Don’t you want something more out of life?”
Avoid sending last-minute messages and try to be punctual. Most escorts have other clients to attend to and are not available all the time. If you send messages that are difficult to read or include the wrong date and time, they may assume that you’re a waste of their time.
Be sure to have your payment ready upon arrival. It’s polite to let your escort know that you are aware of her price list and that you will pay her as soon as she’s finished with the service. Tipping is also acceptable and a nice gesture. It’s usually customary to tip 15-20%. Be sure to thank her for her time after the service, too!
Be respectful
When working with an escort service, it is important to treat them with respect. This means not haggling over price, not being coy about payment, and not asking rude or prying questions. It also means respecting their boundaries and not pushing sexy limits too far. Ultimately, your experience will be better if you are respectful.
Another way to be respectful is to pay your escort a generous tip at the end of the session. This will show that you appreciate her work and want to come back in the future. In addition, it will help her keep her sexy secret.
When it is time to leave, don’t linger. Even if you’ve had a great time, it isn’t fair to your escort to overstay your welcome. Remember that this is a business relationship, and she has her own personal life to tend to. Moreover, leaving too soon could make her less enthusiastic about seeing you again. If you do want more time, just ask — and expect to pay for it at the rate discussed beforehand.
Be discreet
Discretion is a very important aspect of being an escort. It means not attracting unwanted attention from others, respecting your clients’ confidentiality, and doing everything in your power to avoid an embarrassing situation for you or your client. It also includes not asking inappropriate questions or gossiping about her family or sex life.
When your playtime is over, don’t linger at the door or in the bathroom chatting. This will make your escort uncomfortable, and she’ll be less likely to want to see you again.
If you’re a first-time customer, it’s best to arrive at your appointment on time. Otherwise, you might be seen loitering in the street or hotel lobby. You should also dress tastefully, but not too sexy. This will help you look more attractive and feel comfortable during your session. Lastly, don’t ask for too many photos. This can be embarrassing for her, and it may also make you appear suspicious. Instead, do your research by following her on social media or by searching her website for selfies. You can also bring her a bottle of wine or a small gift to show your appreciation.
Be a good tipper
In addition to paying a sizable hourly rate (for her time, not sex — whatever happens between consenting adults), an escort may have to pay her agency for booking, screening clients, advertising and possibly taxes. Tipping is a great way to show her your appreciation for her efforts and is totally acceptable.
It’s important to always be aware of your escort’s prices and have your pre-payment ready when you meet her. Avoid letting her have to ask you for payment, as this can feel awkward and uncomfortable.
A good tip is usually 10-15% of her hourly rate. If you think she went above and beyond the call of duty, you can always tip more than that.
Some escorts appreciate surprise gifts as well, but be sure to check in with her before giving something you might regret later. They’ve seen it all, from pieces of art that are genuinely terrible to clothing that no one in their right mind would wear. Gift certificates to stores like Victoria’s Secret are always a safe bet. Or, you can bring her a nice bottle of wine, which doubles as a great social lubricant and is a wonderful treat.